Howdy!
I hope everyone is having a good week. Thanks the good Lord it’s almost Friday. I swear my brain stopped working around 11am today and I’m about done for. 😉
So, I want to reach out to you guys to answer my poll. I’ve had so many people talk to me lately about how their marriages or long-term relationships are being smashed to pieces because one of the partners is engaging in romantic/sexual play with people online.
It may be serious flirting over chat or the phone.
It may be sexting with or without photos. It may be Skyping in an inappropriate way with someone else. It could be participating in live-action “tell me what to do, baby” video porn.
Without speaking my mind on the subject (which I’ll do soon enough) I want to know what you think.
Here’s the premise:
Do you think it is a betrayal if your significant other is finding sexual satisfaction from another person via the phone or internet?
Poll for the ladies: If your man was being sexual with another woman online, would you consider it a betrayal?
Poll for the gentlemen: If your woman was being sexual with another man online, would you consider it a betrayal?
Thanks so much for taking the time to respond. You guys kick ass!
As soon as your thoughtful responses are collected, I’ll let you see why they were so important.
Hugs!
There is no denying it, it is still cheating. That was the first hint that my ex-wife was cheating, and when I was with the sociopath, she was receiving intimate photos from men, and sent a couple of intimate photos herself (must be something wrong with me there haha). It is the first step to a bigger problem
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I can’t yet say my opinion as I don’t want to skew anyone’s vote, but I’m sure you know what I’m thinking. 🙂
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I do indeedy know what you are thinking, so get your mind out of the gutter and concentrate on your blog 😛
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It is definitely cheating.
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Thank ya, my dear. I can’t yet offer my own opinion, but it’ll be coming down the block soon enough. 🙂 Hugs!
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Looking forward to your input. Have a relaxing weekend.
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If he’s seeking sexual gratification elsewhere and keeping it secret, then there’s something wrong. A relationship isn’t a relationship without open communication about something as important as sexual satisfaction.
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Preach on, sister! I just submitted my article to the Acquiring Man using this poll. So thanks a ton for responding. I didn’t want to say my own opinion until the poll was closed–didn’t want to sway any responses. But now that the article is in the bag–I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU!!! XOXOXXO
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🙂
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If they’re finding satisfaction that way then they’re sowing dissatisfaction with their real relationships.
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I totally agree. 🙂
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